Sad to say, I relate to this all too well. My first partner only ever made me orgasm once- when I practically grabbed his hand, put my fingers on top of his, and basically masturbated myself with his hand. He then proceeded to make facetious jokes about getting RSI due to how long it took me to climax. At that point I decided it was less hassle to just keep on faking it as usual. I wish I could have been more assertive about claiming my right to feel as much pleasure from sex as he always took. Great article 👍